The Most Holy Name of Mary
A Reflection for the Feast
of September 12
Written by: James Dacey, Jr. OFS
Say the name
Mary, and something happens. It’s soft, familiar, almost like a prayer all by
itself, the kind of name that has been whispered by mothers, sung by choirs,
and called out in the middle of the night by people who needed help and didn’t
know where else to turn. Every year on September 12, the Catholic Church sets
aside a whole day just to honor her name. Not a title, not an event in her life,
just her name. It might seem like a small thing to build a feast day around,
but as we’ll see, there’s nothing small about it at all.
That day on the
calendar didn’t come from nowhere. Long before it belonged to the whole Church,
it belonged to Spain, where the faithful first celebrated it locally back in
1513.1 It grew from there, quietly, the way real devotion usually
does, one town, one parish, one grateful heart at a time, long before Rome ever
made it official. And when the day did finally spread to the whole world in
1683, it wasn’t because of a decree written in some quiet office. It was
because an army knelt down first. It was King Sobieski who stopped at a shrine
to Our Lady before marching into one of the most consequential battles of his
century, and when the fighting was over, it was her name, not his own victory,
that he gave the credit to.2 That’s the thing about Mary. She has a
way of showing up right in the middle of the biggest, scariest moments in
history, and turning them into occasions for gratitude.
There’s an echo
of that same instinct just a few days earlier on the calendar. On September 7,
1921, First Vespers of the Nativity of Mary, a Dublin civil servant named Frank
Duff gathered fifteen ordinary lay people in a room on Francis Street and asked
them to do nothing more complicated than say her name and go out and share her
with others. He called what they started the Legion of Mary, and long before it
grew into the largest lay apostolic movement in the Church, it began the same
way this feast day did: quietly, with a small handful of people who believed
her name was strong enough to build something on.8
But you don’t
need a battlefield, or a movement, to understand why her name matters. You just
need a hard day. Saint Bernard of Clairvaux used to call her the “Star of the
Sea”, Stella Maris, because a star doesn’t do the sailing for you, but it never
once looks away while you find your course home.3 That’s what her
name has always done for ordinary people: not fixed everything for them but
stayed lit above them while they figured it out. It’s no accident, then, that
the Legion of Mary put exactly that kind of prayer at the center of everything
it does. Every meeting opens and closes with the Catena Legionis, the “chain
prayer”, built entirely out of Mary’s own words in the Magnificat: My soul doth
magnify the Lord… for He that is mighty hath done great things to me, and holy
is His name.9 Notice what she says there. She doesn’t glorify her
own name; she points straight past herself to His. And that, more than any
coincidence of dates, might be the truest thing the Legion ever understood
about devotion to Mary: honoring her name and hallowing God’s name were never
two different things.
That same
instinct, the reach for her name in a hard moment, is exactly what carried this
feast day through some rocky history of its own. It was actually removed from
the Church calendar for a few decades after the Second Vatican Council, and
then quietly restored in the early 2000s, because enough people never stopped
needing that star to look up to.4
There’s something
wonderful about the fact that even scholars can’t agree on exactly what her
name means, some hear echoes of “beloved,” some hear “star of the sea,” some
hear “the exalted one.”5 Maybe that’s fitting. How do you pin down,
in one neat definition, the woman who said yes to carrying God? Saint Anthony
of Padua didn’t try to define it so much as just enjoy it, saying her name was
sweeter than honey on the lips and more delightful than any song to the ear.6
That’s not the language of a textbook. That’s the language of someone in love.
And really, that’s what this whole day is, not a lesson we’re required to
learn, but a love letter the whole Church gets to write together, one Hail
Mary, one quiet prayer, one grateful heart at a time.
I’ll admit
something here, just between us, before we close. My own love for our blessed
Mother (Our Lady of Fatima) didn’t start with research or theology, it started
in 1983, standing up for her at a prayer group, at an age when I didn’t yet
know how much that moment defending her place amongst us would shape the rest
of my life. Since then, she has never once let go of me. First, it was Our Lady
of Fatima in Washington, New Jersey; now it’s Our Lady of Fatima in Lewiston,
New York, different states, same Mother, same pull toward her that hasn’t faded
in over forty-three years. I don’t seek anything in return for sharing this. If
anything, I’d much rather be forgotten entirely and have her name remembered
instead. That’s really the whole point of a life spent loving her: not to be
seen, but to help someone else fall in love with her too.
The saints never
treated her name like a subject to study; they treated it like a person to run
to. Saint Lawrence Justinian called it “a tower of strength” that stands guard
over the faithful. Saint Maximilian Kolbe went even further, telling anyone
who’d listen not to be afraid of loving her too much, because no one could ever
out-love her own Son.7 The Legion of Mary put that same conviction
into six words that every legionary still prays before doing anything else: “O
Mary, conceived without sin, pray for us who have recourse to thee.”10
Not a theology lesson or a debate over titles. Just her name, spoken first,
before the work even begins. Maybe that’s the real invitation hiding inside
this feast day, not just to learn a little history, or admire a nice title, but
to live the way they did: leaning on her, trusting her, letting her name be the
first word on our lips in the hard moments and the grateful ones alike.
So today, just
say her name. Mary. Say it once, quietly, the way a room full of strangers in
Dublin said it in 1921, the way sailors said it searching for Stella Maris, the
way I said it in 1983 without knowing what it would become. Or borrow the
Legion’s own words and make them yours: O Mary, conceived without sin, pray for
us who have recourse to thee. This love letter has been written for two
thousand years by countless hands who never needed a reason beyond love itself,
and now, however small your part, it’s your turn to add a line.
Sources
1. Franciscan Media,
“Most Holy Name of the Blessed Virgin Mary,” franciscanmedia.org; Catholic
Straight Answers, “What is the origin of the Feast of the Most Holy Name of
Mary, September 12th?” catholicstraightanswers.com.
2. Franciscan Media,
“Most Holy Name of the Blessed Virgin Mary”; Oblates of the Virgin Mary,
“Celebrate the Feast of the Most Holy Name of Mary With the Oblate Community,”
omvusa.org.
3. Fr. Matthew Mary,
MFVA, homily on the Most Holy Name of Mary, September 12, 2024, citing St.
Bernard of Clairvaux’s reflection on Mary as “Star of the Sea” (Stella Maris).
4. Catholic
Encyclopedia, “Feast of the Holy Name of Mary,” New Advent, newadvent.org;
Notre Dame Faith ND, “Holy Name of Mary,” faith.nd.edu.
5. Catholic
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Publications, “The Name Mary: Meaning and Etymology,” abarim-publications.com.
6. Traditional
attribution to St. Anthony of Padua, widely cited in Catholic devotional
literature on the Holy Name of Mary.
7. St. Lawrence
Justinian, quoted in “Quote/s of the Day — 12 September — The Most Holy Name of
Mary,” Ana St Paul, anastpaul.com; St. Maximilian Kolbe, quoted in “Powerful
Saint Quotes That Celebrate Mary,” Cora Evans Foundation, coraevans.com.
8. Legion of Mary,
official history of the founding, 7 September 1921, Dublin; “Legion of Mary,”
Wikipedia; legionofmary.ie.
9. Legion of Mary,
“Catena Legionis,” official Legion of Mary prayers, legionofmary.ie.
10. Legion of Mary,
foundational invocation (“O Mary, conceived without sin…”), Legion of Mary
Handbook and official prayers, legionofmary.ie.
