When Love
Looks Like Madness

A Reflection on Mark 3:22-30

The scribes who came down from Jerusalem had a problem. They witnessed Jesus casting out demons, healing the sick, and liberating people from spiritual bondage, yet they couldn't accept what was right before their eyes. Instead of recognizing God's power at work, they made an astonishing claim: Jesus was working through the prince of demons. This wasn't just a misunderstanding; it was a deliberate choice to call good evil and light darkness. Jesus responds with perfect logic, a kingdom divided against itself cannot stand, so why would Satan cast out Satan? But beneath this reasoning lies something even more profound: the scribes had become so hardened in their hearts that they could look directly at divine love in action and see only evil. This is what makes blasphemy against the Holy Spirit unforgivable, not because God refuses to forgive, but because a heart that calls goodness evil, has closed itself off from recognizing the very grace that would save it.

The tragedy here is that these religious leaders had spent their entire lives studying Scripture and waiting for God to act, yet when He stood before them in the flesh, they couldn't recognize Him. They had created such rigid expectations of how God should work that they missed how God actually works, through humble love, mercy toward sinners, and power that liberates rather than dominates. Their expertise became their blindness. This warns us that knowledge about God is not the same as knowing God. We can pray all the right prayers, follow all the right rules, and still miss the movement of the Holy Spirit in our lives if we're not paying attention with humble, open hearts. The Spirit goes where it will, and sometimes God's work looks different from what we expect, more surprising, more generous than we would dare to imagine.

This is where the Rosary becomes our teacher and protector. When we pray the mysteries, we walk through the life of Jesus with Mary, who never once mistook His divine mission for demonic activity. In the Joyful Mysteries, we see her say yes to what seemed impossible. In the Sorrowful Mysteries, we watch her stand beneath the cross when even the disciples fled, never doubting that God's love was still at work in apparent defeat. In the Glorious Mysteries, we celebrate the victory that comes through surrender and trust. The Rosary forms our hearts to recognize God's action in the world by conforming us to Christ through His mother's eyes. Mary teaches us to treasure things in our hearts, to ponder deeply rather than judge quickly, and to recognize the Holy Spirit's work even when it shatters our expectations. Each Hail Mary is a small act of trust that softens our hearts and opens our spiritual eyes.

The scribes' accusation against Jesus reveals the greatest danger facing any believer: the danger of a heart that has become too sure of itself to remain teachable. When we Pray the Rosary, we don't just recite words; we practice the humility that kept Mary's heart open to God's surprising ways. We meditate on the mysteries so that we'll recognize the Holy Spirit's movement when it happens in our own lives, in the stranger who needs help, in the suffering that refines us, in the quiet promptings toward forgiveness and love. The unforgivable sin isn't a single terrible mistake; it's the hardened heart that refuses to see God's light and calls it darkness. Our Lady of the Rosary protects us from this blindness by keeping our hearts soft, our minds humble, and our eyes fixed on her Son.


Questions to Consider:

  • In what areas of my life might I have created rigid expectations of how God should work, potentially blinding me to how He actually is working?
  • When have I witnessed obvious goodness but struggled to accept it because it came in an unexpected form or from an unexpected source?
  • How does praying the Rosary help me develop the kind of spiritual sight that recognizes the Holy Spirit's movement rather than resisting or explaining it away?
  • What is the difference between knowing about God through study and truly knowing God through relationship, and where do I need to move from one to the other?
  • How can Mary's example of pondering things in her heart, rather than rushing to judgment, transform the way I respond to confusing or challenging situations?



©2026 James Dacey, Jr., OFS

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