December 20
Behold, I am the Handmaid

Readings: Isaiah 7:10-14 / Luke 1:26-38


Reflection

King Ahaz faces a crisis. Enemies surround Jerusalem. Isaiah the prophet tells him, "Ask for a sign from the LORD your God, make it as deep as the netherworld or as high as the sky!" But Ahaz refuses: "I will not ask! I will not tempt the LORD!" It sounds pious, but it's actually faithless. Ahaz doesn't want a sign because a sign would require him to trust God instead of his own political schemes. Isaiah responds with exasperation: "Is it not enough for you to weary men, must you also weary my God? Therefore, the Lord himself will give you this sign: the virgin shall conceive and bear a son and shall name him Emmanuel." God with us. Even when we refuse to ask, God gives. Even when we turn away, God is present. Seven centuries later, that prophecy unfolds in a young girl's room in Nazareth. The angel Gabriel appears to Mary: "Hail, full of grace! The Lord is with you." She's troubled, wondering what this greeting means. Then Gabriel announces the impossible: "You will conceive and bear a son, and you shall name him Jesus." Mary asks the only reasonable question: "How can this be, since I have no relations with a man?" The angel explains: "The Holy Spirit will come upon you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you." And then Mary speaks the words that change everything: "Behold, I am the handmaid of the Lord. May it be done to me according to your word."

The contrast between Ahaz and Mary is stunning. Ahaz refuses a sign because he doesn't want to surrender control. Mary receives an impossible announcement and surrenders completely. Ahaz says, "I will not ask", a refusal wrapped in religious language. Mary says, "May it be done to me", total trust wrapped in humble obedience. Today's O Antiphon is "O Clavis David", O Key of David, who opens and no one can shut, who shuts and no one can open. Jesus is that key, the one who opens the kingdom of heaven, who unlocks the gates that sin had closed. And He comes through Mary's yes. Her obedience becomes the door through which God enters the world. Isaiah prophesied that a virgin would conceive. Gabriel announced it to Mary. And Mary believed it. Five days until Christmas. Five days until Emmanuel, God with us, is born. And it all hinges on one young woman's extraordinary faith. Gabriel tells her about Elizabeth: "Your relative has also conceived a son in her old age, and this is the sixth month for her who was called barren; for nothing will be impossible for God." Mary has just heard Elizabeth's miracle. Now she's being invited into her own. And she doesn't hesitate. She doesn't negotiate. She simply says yes.

Here's what makes this moment so powerful: Mary didn't have theology degrees or scriptural expertise. She was a young girl from a small town. But when God came calling, she was ready. Not because she understood everything, but because she trusted completely. "Behold, I am the handmaid of the Lord." That word "behold" means "look" or "see", she's presenting herself to God as available, open, ready. A handmaid is a servant who waits for instructions and then acts. Mary doesn't say, "Let me think about it." She doesn't say, "Can I get back to you?" She says, "I am ready. Do with me what You will." And the Word becomes flesh. The Key of David unlocks salvation. Emmanuel begins His journey to us. We're five days away from celebrating the birth, but today we celebrate the yes that made the birth possible. Ahaz refused God's sign and lost everything. Mary accepted God's word and received everything. The question for us, five days before Christmas, is simple: Are we more like Ahaz or Mary? Do we refuse God's invitation because it threatens our control? Or do we say yes even when we don't understand everything? The virgin conceived. Emmanuel is coming. And it all started with one word: yes.

Franciscan Reflection

Francis heard God say, "Rebuild my church," and he said yes before he understood what it meant. He thought God meant the literal church of San Damiano, so he started carrying stones. Later he realized God meant the universal Church, so he kept saying yes to whatever came next. Francis lived Mary's fiat, her "let it be done", every single day. When God asked him to kiss the leper, Francis said yes. When God asked him to embrace poverty, Francis said yes. When God asked him to preach even though he wasn't educated, Francis said yes. He didn't wait to understand everything. He just kept saying, "Behold, I am the servant of the Lord." That's the Franciscan way: radical availability to whatever God asks. Mary's yes led to Jesus. Francis's yes led to a movement that transformed the Church. What might your yes lead to? Don't wait to understand everything. Just say it: "May it be done to me according to your word."


For Your Reflection

Take your time. No hurry, no rush.

About Ahaz's Refusal:

  • Ahaz refused a sign because he didn't want to surrender control. Where are you refusing God's invitation because it threatens your plans?
  • Sometimes religious language hides faithlessness. Where might you be using piety as an excuse for disobedience?
  • God gave the sign anyway; Emmanuel came despite Ahaz's refusal. What has God done for you despite your resistance?

About Mary's Yes:

  • "Behold, I am the handmaid of the Lord." When have you presented yourself to God as completely available?
  • Mary said yes before she understood how it would all work. What is God asking you to say yes to even though you don't have all the answers?
  • Mary's yes changed human history. What might your yes change in your life? In others' lives?

About O Clavis David (O Key of David):

  • Jesus is the key who opens what sin closed. What door in your life needs Jesus to unlock?
  • Mary's obedience became the door through which God entered the world. How can your obedience create space for God to work?
  • The key of David opens, and no one can shut. What has Jesus opened for you that you thought was closed forever?

About Emmanuel:

  • "God with us" was Isaiah's prophecy and Mary's reality. Where do you need Emmanuel, God with you, today?
  • We're five days from Christmas. Is your heart ready to receive Emmanuel?
  • Gabriel said, "nothing will be impossible for God." What "impossible" situation needs God's intervention?

Praying the Joyful Mysteries

As you pray the rosary today, see Mary's yes unfold:

The Annunciation - "May it be done to me according to your word." The yes that changes everything.

The Visitation - Mary brings Jesus to Elizabeth. Her yes immediately becomes service.

The Nativity - The yes bears fruit. Emmanuel is born. God with us.

The Presentation - Mary presents Jesus in the temple. She keeps saying yes even when Simeon prophesies a sword will pierce her heart.

Finding in the Temple - "Did you not know I must be about my Father's business?" Mary learns to let her yes grow and change.

The Joyful Mysteries show us Mary's yes from beginning to unfolding. It's not one yes. It's a life of saying yes. Christmas is five days away because Mary said yes nine months ago in this Gospel story. Will you say yes today?


A Quiet Challenge

This week, practice Mary's availability. Every morning, pray our Lady’s words: "Behold, I am the handmaid of the Lord. May it be done to me according to your word."

Then watch for what God asks of you that day. It might be small patience with a difficult person, generosity with your time, and forgiveness you've been withholding. It might be large, a major life decision, a sacrifice that costs you, a step of faith into the unknown.

Whatever it is, say yes. Like Mary. Without negotiating. Without demanding to understand everything first. Just: "May it be done to me according to your word."

The Key of David is waiting to unlock something in your life. Your yes opens the door.


Closing

Pray this with Mary's heart:

"Lord Jesus, O Key of David, You who open and no one can shut, who shut and no one can open, come and unlock my heart. I confess I am often like Ahaz, refusing Your signs because I want to maintain control, hiding my faithlessness behind religious words. Forgive me. Give me Mary's heart, ready, available, trusting even in the impossible. Holy Spirit, overshadow me as You overshadowed Mary. Make me a dwelling place for Jesus. I say with Mary: Behold, I am Your servant. May it be done to me according to Your word. I don't understand everything. I don't have all the answers. But I trust You. Emmanuel, God with us, come. Five days until we celebrate Your birth. But today I celebrate Mary's yes. And today I say my own yes. Whatever You ask. However, You lead. Whenever You call. Yes, Lord. Yes. In Jesus' Name, Amen."

Then ask:

  • Am I more like Ahaz (refusing) or Mary (surrendering)?
  • What is God asking me to say yes to that I've been avoiding?
  • Do I trust that nothing is impossible with God?

Five days until Christmas. Emmanuel is coming. The virgin is conceiving. The Key is turning. The door is opening.

Will you say yes? Behold, I am the handmaid of the Lord. Say it. Mean it. Live it.


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©2025 James Dacey, Jr., OFS

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