Learning to Love
Like God Loves

To truly grasp what Jesus is teaching us in this passage, we need to understand the revolutionary nature of His words within their historical context. In Jesus' time, the prevailing wisdom was summarized in the phrase "love your neighbor and hate your enemy," which represented a natural human response that we can easily recognize today. This wasn't necessarily a biblical commandment, but rather the practical philosophy that most people lived by: you take care of your own people and oppose those who oppose you. What makes Jesus' teaching so remarkable is that He completely overturns this expected pattern of human behavior. When He says "But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you," He's not just suggesting a nicer way to live; He's calling us into a fundamentally different way of being human. This teaching strikes at the very heart of what it means to follow Jesus Christ, because it requires us to act in ways that go against our natural instincts for self-preservation.

The theological foundation for this seemingly impossible command becomes clear when Jesus explains that loving our enemies makes us "children of your Father in heaven." This isn't just poetic language - it's describing a real spiritual transformation that occurs when we choose to love like God loves. Jesus illustrates this divine love through the beautiful metaphor of the sun and rain, pointing out that God's love is completely impartial and generous. The sun doesn't check whether you're a saint or a sinner before warming your face, and the rain doesn't discriminate between the just and the unjust when it waters the earth. This divine generosity serves as both our model and our motivation. When we love those who have hurt us, we're participating in the very nature of God Himself. We're not just being nice people - we're becoming holy people, which is our ultimate calling as Catholics.

The practical challenge Jesus presents in verses 46 and 47 helps us understand why enemy love is so essential to spiritual growth. He asks pointedly, "If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Aren't even the tax collectors doing that?" Here, Jesus uses tax collectors as an example of people who were considered morally compromised in His culture, yet even they naturally love those who love them in return. His point is that anyone can love people who are easy to love - that's basic human nature, not Christian discipleship. The real test of our spiritual maturity comes when we choose to love people who don't deserve it, who haven't earned it, or who might even use our love against us. This kind of love requires supernatural grace because it transcends what we can accomplish through our own willpower alone. It's the difference between being a decent person and being a saint. When we love our enemies, we're proving that Jesus Christ's life is truly active within us, transforming our hearts and enabling us to do what would otherwise be impossible.

The command to "be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect" might initially seem overwhelming, but in our Catholic teaching, we understand what Jesus actually means by perfection. The Greek word used here, "teleios," doesn't mean flawless performance but rather completeness or wholeness, reaching the full purpose for which we were created. God's perfection isn't about never making mistakes; it's about the completeness of His love, which holds nothing back and excludes no one. When we love our enemies, we're growing into this same kind of complete love. We're becoming whole people who can respond to any situation with Jesus' love rather than being controlled by our emotions, past hurts, or natural reactions. This is why the saints found such freedom and joy in practicing enemy love - not because it was easy, but because it liberated them from the prison of resentment and revenge. Each time we choose to pray for someone who has hurt us, speak kindly of someone who has spoken poorly of us, or actively help someone who has hindered us, we're taking another step toward the spiritual maturity that Jesus calls perfection. We're becoming more like our heavenly Father, and in doing so, we're becoming more truly ourselves.


©2025 James Dacey Jr.

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